Poly is not cheating.
I find that I have to keep reminding myself this, because my urges to experience new partners (or past partners again) has skyrocketed, but A and B have declared that now is not a good time for me to get physically or emotionally involved with anybody else, AND… I’m home less than 50% of the time. So I have a triad, but I spend most of my time completely alone. There’s many women I’d like to get to know better in one fashion or another, but I’m not allowed. And some nights I don’t care. Fortunately, those nights have never coincided with opportunity. :-p
This is the pain of being a poly involved with, really, two monogamous women.
I don’t like being locked down like this, but I also do not want to leave my loves, nor be a cheater. I’m feeling trapped. What to do?
I can understand that…
I’m part of a quad I guess. We are all non monogamy types and ended up getting super serious with eachother.
We all are staying exclusive for a while with no straying until everyone is settled in. Going on half a year and my playfull ways call when we are seperated.
When we are not seperated I never even think about it and everything seems perfect.